Five Types of Women Who Aren’t in a Relationship and Why

The woman who loves her single lifestyle

She’s having fun and nothing (or no one) is about to get in the way of that. She likes the freedom of being single and she savors every moment of it. She doesn’t need anyone to carry her bag around or bring her flowers, she gets what she wants herself and she loves it. She hates the feeling of having another person check up on her, smother her with sweet texts and demand that she skip beer pong Fridays to have some RomCom marathon. She does want company sometimes, so if she feels like it, she’ll call you. Monogamy is just too much for her to handle. She doesn’t feel the need to settle on just one person, and clearly, she hasn’t.

The Woman who wants a relationship but just can’t find the right person to have it with

You can call her picky, you can call her superficial, and you can call her high maintenance. She doesn’t care but for whatever reason, she hasn’t found Mr. Right, and she’s still waiting – or looking. Once before, she might have already had this “thing” with someone and she really wanted it to last but it didn’t happen. He was hot and educated, really driven and he cared for her. But while there were supposed to be fireworks, there wasn’t even a spark. She has a lot of suitors lining up in her doorstep and all of them are friend zoned, because none of them interests her a bit, and when she finds that one person she likes, he’s married, gay or fictional. The puzzle pieces don’t seem to match and she’s not just about to settle for any less.

The Woman who everyone else wants a relationship with

She’s the epitome of perfection – drop-dead gorgeous, with long legs, thick lashes and she wears success proudly like she wears her Prada.  Acne scars treatment makes a girl man’s dream, but she’s just not into settling down yet. She might have had a couple of boyfriends, some hook-ups, but nothing serious or long term. Either she intimidates her partner and shoos him away for being a lesser deity, she finds out her jerk of a boyfriend sees her more like a priceless accessory than a partner, or she gets suffocated by an obsessed boyfriend who smothers her to death because he doesn’t want her to be with anyone else. Serious relationships haven’t worked out well so far and so she’s in the singles arena enjoying how everyone wishes she’s with her.



The woman who puts career first

Ambitious and unyielding, she has a goal and no one can stop her. She paid off her college tuition by herself and now that she’s earned her degree, no amount of abs and smile can distract her from reaching her dreams. She loves her job, and she has fun doing it. The fulfillment other people get from a relationship, she gets from her career. This is a woman on the move and a relationship just isn’t written in her daily planner.


The woman who has no more love to give

She’s been there and she wants nothing more to do with it. A relationship has left her a couple of scars and although forgiveness was granted, there’s been closure and the wounds have already healed, she’s grown weary of getting into a relationship, trying to make it work and see everything crumbling to pieces all at the same time. She’s invested a lot of time, effort and feeling in her past relationships and none of them worked out. The thought of building a relationship with anyone is foreign now. Everything seems too predictable. One way or another, sooner or later, something will go wrong, somebody will get tired, somebody will want to flight until the end and somebody will leave someone hanging. If Mr. Right comes along, then okay, let’s see how this ends but if he doesn’t, then fine. Her love tank is empty, and her relationship status is single.