Category Archives: Dating
In movies, the leading man will always have the leading lady, of course, with the help of everyone on set. The director will give you every inch of what you are going to say including your reactions and blocking. With the script on hand, everything will run smoothly as plotted but in real life, you have to do the flirting alone.
When a man flirts, it may mean a lot of things. It sometimes connotes that he is just being friendly or being too aggressive or worst he is just fooling around. Though men will always be men, let us not destroy the advantage of flirting because sometimes flirting is just a means of captivating the girl of your dreams. Listed below are tips that might give you a lucky strike.
Be a Smooth Talker with Sense
Impress her with your wide vocabulary and flatter her with those charming punch-lines. Some women find it sexy when a man talks with his brain and not just mere talking. Be articulate and let your literary thoughts gush out, be intellectually interesting and learn how to use words accordingly. If you are poor in this section, familiarize with few words that are smart enough to amaze her without being too scripted.
Be Her Happy Button
Create a bond between the two of you, make her smile and let her feel that you could be her little munchkin of happiness. Give her the thought of bliss every time she sees you, in that way you could get her to talk about things that make her happy. With your actions, slowly she would now have her mind adjusted to how she sees you as a person, a friend for a start or a potential lover.
Make Her Feel She’s the Only One
Paying attention to her will make her feel special. Give her compliments that she deserves by telling her how beautiful she is and how she looks stunning with what she’s wearing. Spend time with her, you could enjoy your free time together by strolling to one of her favorite places. Take pleasure in each other’s company and create memories you could look back to.
Remember Dates, Places, and Details
Have your mind memorize all the details from her dress to her shoes that also includes the date, time and venue. To make it more extra special take note of the conversation you have and gestures that you made. This will surely make her feel special and she’ll be touched that you still remember every detail, this will be rewarding in the future.
A gesture that could converse without even opening your mouth, have her awestruck by a glance with a flashing smile that could outstand every romantic line ever spilled. Using a smile that could be remembered, make this glance natural as possible don’t overdo it or you might send a wrong notion that could lead her to backfire.
Every action made is equivalent to memories you are going to mark on someone’s mind. Flirting is one way that you could be remembered so leave no trace of embarrassment. There is nothing wrong with flirting, it is only gestures of affection but make sure that you do it smoothly as natural.…
The woman who loves her single lifestyle
She’s having fun and nothing (or no one) is about to get in the way of that. She likes the freedom of being single and she savors every moment of it. She doesn’t need anyone to carry her bag around or bring her flowers, she gets what she wants herself and she loves it. She hates the feeling of having another person check up on her, smother her with sweet texts and demand that she skip beer pong Fridays to have some RomCom marathon. She does want company sometimes, so if she feels like it, she’ll call you. Monogamy is just too much for her to handle. She doesn’t feel the need to settle on just one person, and clearly, she hasn’t.
The Woman who wants a relationship but just can’t find the right person to have it with
You can call her picky, you can call her superficial, and you can call her high maintenance. She doesn’t care but for whatever reason, she hasn’t found Mr. Right, and she’s still waiting – or looking. Once before, she might have already had this “thing” with someone and she really wanted it to last but it didn’t happen. He was hot and educated, really driven and he cared for her. But while there were supposed to be fireworks, there wasn’t even a spark. She has a lot of suitors lining up in her doorstep and all of them are friend zoned, because none of them interests her a bit, and when she finds that one person she likes, he’s married, gay or fictional. The puzzle pieces don’t seem to match and she’s not just about to settle for any less.
The Woman who everyone else wants a relationship with
She’s the epitome of perfection – drop-dead gorgeous, with long legs, thick lashes and she wears success proudly like she wears her Prada. She’s everyone’s dream girl and she knows it, but she’s just not into settling down yet. She might have had a couple of boyfriends, some hook-ups, but nothing serious or long term. Either she intimidates her partner and shoos him away for being a lesser deity, she finds out her jerk of a boyfriend sees her more like a priceless accessory than a partner, or she gets suffocated by an obsessed boyfriend who smothers her to death because he doesn’t want her to be with anyone else. Serious relationships haven’t worked out well so far and so she’s in the singles arena enjoying how everyone wishes she’s with her.
The woman who puts career first
Ambitious and unyielding, she has a goal and no one can stop her. She paid off her college tuition by herself and now that she’s earned her degree, no amount of abs and smile can distract her from reaching her dreams. She loves her job, and she has fun doing it. The fulfillment other people get from a relationship, she gets from her career. This is a woman on the move and a relationship just isn’t written in her daily planner.
The woman who has no more love to give
She’s been there and she wants nothing more to do with it. A relationship has left her a couple of scars and although forgiveness was granted, there’s been closure and the wounds have already healed, she’s grown weary of getting into a relationship, trying to make it work and see everything crumbling to pieces all at the same time. She’s invested a lot of time, effort and feeling in her past relationships and none of them worked out. The thought of building a relationship with anyone is foreign now. Everything seems too predictable. One way or another, sooner or later, something will go wrong, somebody will get tired, somebody will want to flight until the end and somebody will leave someone hanging. If Mr. Right comes along, then okay, let’s see how this ends but if he doesn’t, then fine. Her love tank is empty, and her relationship status is single.…