In movies, the leading man will always have the leading lady, of course, with the help of everyone on set. The director will give you every inch of what you are going to say including your reactions and blocking. With the script on hand, everything will run smoothly as plotted but in real life, you have to do the flirting alone.
When a man flirts, it may mean a lot of things. It sometimes connotes that he is just being friendly or being too aggressive or worst he is just fooling around. Though men will always be men, let us not destroy the advantage of flirting because sometimes flirting is just a means of captivating the girl of your dreams. Listed below are tips that might give you a lucky strike.
Be a Smooth Talker with Sense
Impress her with your wide vocabulary and flatter her with those charming punch-lines. Some women find it sexy when a man talks with his brain and not just mere talking. Be articulate and let your literary thoughts gush out, be intellectually interesting and learn how to use words accordingly. If you are poor in this section, familiarize with few words that are smart enough to amaze her without being too scripted.
Be Her Happy Button
Create a bond between the two of you, make her smile and let her feel that you could be her little munchkin of happiness. Give her the thought of bliss every time she sees you, in that way you could get her to talk about things that make her happy. With your actions, slowly she would now have her mind adjusted to how she sees you as a person, a friend for a start or a potential lover.
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Make Her Feel She’s the Only One
Paying attention to her will make her feel special. Give her compliments that she deserves by telling her how beautiful she is and how she looks stunning with what she’s wearing. Spend time with her, you could enjoy your free time together by strolling to one of her favorite places. Take pleasure in each other’s company and create memories you could look back to.
Remember Dates, Places, and Details
Have your mind memorize all the details from her dress to her shoes that also includes the date, time and venue. To make it more extra special take note of the conversation you have and gestures that you made. This will surely make her feel special and she’ll be touched that you still remember every detail, this will be rewarding in the future.
A gesture that could converse without even opening your mouth, have her awestruck by a glance with a flashing smile that could outstand every romantic line ever spilled. Using a smile that could be remembered, make this glance natural as possible don’t overdo it or you might send a wrong notion that could lead her to backfire.
Every action made is equivalent to memories you are going to mark on someone’s mind. Flirting is one way that you could be remembered so leave no trace of embarrassment. There is nothing wrong with flirting, it is only gestures of affection but make sure that you do it smoothly as natural.